What to write
What to write in your child's memory book at age 14
At fourteen they're forming strong views and working out who they want to be. Conversations can be rare but surprisingly deep when they happen. Note them down — these are the years you'll most want to remember accurately.
Questions to answer this year
- What are they working hard at, whether or not it shows?
- Which friendships are keeping them steady?
- What do they get frustrated with you about?
- What are they passionate about this year?
- What's an opinion of theirs that made you rethink yours?
- What have they taken a risk on?
Milestones and moments to look out for
- Choosing subjects or thinking about their future
- A cause, belief or opinion they feel strongly about
- A personal best — in sport, music, school or anything
- A trip or experience without the family
- The friends they spend most time with
- A late-night conversation that stayed with you
- Something they did that made you proud
Every child moves at their own pace — these are ideas for what to notice, not a checklist.
Things they might say
“I've thought about it, and I'm right.”
“Can I just have five more minutes?” (two hours later)
“Thanks for the lift. Love you. Bye.”
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